When it comes to planning a wedding, one of the first and most important steps is choosing your wedding design style. Your wedding is a reflection of you and your partner, and every detail should align with your vision and personality. But with so many styles to choose from, how do you narrow it down and find the one that feels just right?
As someone who transitioned from a background in theatrical design and project management to wedding planning, I have always been passionate about storytelling through visuals. In the world of theater, we create entire worlds from scratch—crafting sets, costumes, and lighting that convey emotions and transport the audience. The same approach applies to weddings, where every element should come together to create an immersive experience for you and your guests.
1. Start with Your Story
Your wedding should feel like a celebration of your love story. Think about moments in your relationship that have been meaningful to you—places you’ve traveled, activities you love, or even your favorite songs or movies. These personal details can help guide your design style. Whether you're drawn to the rustic beauty of a mountain retreat or the modern elegance of an architectural hotel, let your story be the foundation for your design choices.
2. Consider Your Venue
The venue often sets the tone for your wedding, so it’s important to choose a style that complements the space. For example, if you’re getting married in an industrial loft, you might lean into a more eclectic or modern design, while a garden venue could inspire a romantic or bohemian style. As a former theatrical designer, I approach venues much like a stage set—it’s all about using the space effectively and highlighting its best features.
3. Explore Different Aesthetic Styles
At Jasper and Lane Events, we’ve developed a variety of style profiles to help couples discover what resonates with them. Some of the popular styles we often work with include:
Vintage Nouveau: An evolution of boho with rustic and vintage influences—ideal for couples who love patterns, textures, and natural elements.
Modern Bride: Clean lines and sophisticated details, often using neutral tones or elegant color palettes.
Romantic Couple: Soft colors, abundant florals, and vintage-inspired details, perfect for a timeless and dreamy celebration.
Eclectic Couple: A bold mix of styles, eras, and colors for those who love a unique and vibrant atmosphere.
Glam Wedding: Extravagant, luxurious details that create a true “wow” factor, with lush florals, metallic accents, and opulent settings.
4. Focus on Practicality as Well as Style
Project management has taught me that every design decision also needs to be practical. The style you choose should not only be beautiful but also functional for your event. This means considering factors like your guest count, the season, and the logistics of your venue. Aesthetics should never come at the cost of comfort and convenience for you and your guests.
5. Don’t Be Afraid to Mix and Match
Some of the most beautiful weddings I’ve planned are those that combine different elements from multiple styles. For example, you might love the elegance of a glam wedding but also want the intimacy of a bohemian setting. Mixing styles can create something truly unique to you as a couple. This is where my experience in versatility and range comes in—I love finding the balance that brings your vision to life while maintaining cohesion.
6. Trust Your Instincts
Ultimately, the best design style for your wedding is the one that feels most like you. There are no rules when it comes to expressing your personality through design. Whether you gravitate toward bold maximalism or understated minimalism, the most important thing is that your wedding feels authentic to who you are.
Take Our Wedding Design Style Quiz
If you’re unsure about which wedding style speaks to you, take our Wedding Design Style Quiz! In just a few minutes, you’ll discover which aesthetic aligns with your personality and vision, helping you start your wedding planning journey with confidence.
Find the quiz: here
After you’ve completed the quiz, let’s connect to discuss how we can bring your dream wedding to life. From bold and eclectic to soft and romantic, Jasper and Lane Events is here to make your big day as unique as your love story. My goal is help couples create weddings that don’t look like everyone else’s. With my background in theatrical design and project management, I approach each wedding as a unique production, where every detail is thoughtfully curated to create an unforgettable experience.
Contact us today to schedule a consultation, and let’s start crafting the wedding of your dreams together. We can’t wait to hear your ideas and help bring them to life!
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